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This strategy leads to the victim becoming dependent on the narcissist for validation and information.
First they “love bomb” their prey, then they threaten, degrade, shift blame, criticize, manipulate, verbally assault, dominate, blackmail, withdraw, withhold love and affection and gaslight their victims.
Very often, the narcissist acts sadistically in the guise of an enlightened interest in the welfare of his victim.
He plays the psychiatrist to her psychopathology (totally dreamt up by him).
One victim describes it as follows:“The narcissist girlfriend thought the world of me, came to me for advice, and would do anything for me; she was so like me and so perfect until the cracks began to show. But they are masters, if you don’t know better, at getting you hooked.”That feeling of “love” that you have is more intense than normal because the narcissist first floods you with expressions of love, and then they withhold, and then they give a little; over time this changes you- it’s a form of manipulation, control and brainwashing. Narcissists degrade their victims and tear apart their self-esteem which can make resistance to their control strategies difficult.
They use tactics such as sarcasm, criticizing, name calling, berating, belittling, excessive blaming, screaming, threatening and humiliation.
A relationship with a narcissist involves cruel and relentless emotional abuse.